The Time I Almost Helped a Client Walk Away From Their Dream Home
One of the hardest parts of this job is knowing when to speak up and when to stay quiet.
Recently, I had a client who was under a lot of stress. She was overwhelmed, emotional, and convinced she wanted to back out of a house we were under contract on.
The easy thing for me to do would have been to immediately send over the paperwork and let her walk away.
Instead, I told her I wanted her to take the night and think about it.
Not because I was trying to talk her into anything. Not because I was worried about a paycheck. I just didn't want her making a permanent decision based on a temporary moment of panic.
The next day, I hadn't heard from her, so I sent her husband a message.
I told him, "I don't want to stress her out anymore. I just wanted to see if you guys had decided to back out. And honestly, I wanted to check on her and make sure she's okay."
Well, he couldn't keep a secret.
He immediately told her I had messaged him, and she reached out and told me they were ready to back out.
So I did exactly what I told her I would do. I let her know I just wanted to be sure before we moved forward, and that's why I had waited.
When she told me she wanted to cancel, I pulled the offer just like I had promised. I had told her from the beginning that if she felt the same way the next day, we would cancel it, and that's exactly what we did.
Then the next morning, she called me back.
She told me she had woken up feeling differently and wanted to take one more look at the house with her son before making a final decision.
Of course, I went back. I was actually working in the yard that morning, so I showed up in what I call my "street clothes"—shorts and a tank top—with my husband and both of our dogs riding in the backseat of the truck.
I met her son and his wife, who were absolutely fantastic people. They loved the house, and after walking through it together, she decided she wanted to move forward after all.
What happened next wasn't easy.
By the time we decided to write the offer again, another buyer had entered the picture.
Suddenly, we found ourselves in a multiple-offer situation and had to compete to keep the house from slipping away.
In the end, though, God always has a plan. Everything came together the way it was supposed to, and we were able to get them the home.
At the end of the day, it was uncomfortable for me.
I never want my clients to think I'm pushing them toward a decision because I'm worried about getting paid. That's never been how I do business.
The truth is, I genuinely believed this house was the perfect fit for them. It checked every box they needed, it was under budget, and I felt in my heart that if they walked away, they would regret it.
Sometimes being a good agent isn't about telling people what they want to hear.
Sometimes it's about giving them the space to think clearly before making a decision they'll have to live with.
Life can be overwhelming. We all go through seasons where stress, fear, and uncertainty make it hard to see things clearly. As agents, some of the toughest conversations we have aren't the ones where we're delivering bad news. Sometimes they're reality checks. Sometimes they're conversations that come from a place of genuine care and concern, where our responsibility is to help clients slow down, look at the bigger picture, and make the decision that's truly best for them.
In this case, I'm really glad she gave herself the chance to step back, think it through, and revisit the decision after she had already decided to walk away—before we lost what I truly believe was the perfect fit for them.
Because today, they're getting the home they wanted all along.
It’s Simple. It’s Nicole.
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